I feel like that’s all I need to say. It sums it up so nicely. It’s a nice little bow on top of a big box of bull shit.
I didn’t choose this end, it was handed to me. For so many years I have been able to dodge it. I was lucky enough to rise above all of the negativity. Not to mention dispite it all, I was strong. I pushed limits and although at times it seemed bothersome to some, the outcome was always worth is. The ends justified the means. I was always grateful for those who let me push boundaries. There were so many people who supported me that the one or two who had doubts would say “Just trust her. She can do this. She is rewriting the books. She’s not afraid to fail. And shes because of that, she often succeeds.”
But I can’t anymore. Because I can’t dodge the negatives anymore. There is not enough support in the world to push me past it and I am weaker than ever. Now, I feel I am throwing darts and I have continuing hope that one sticks. The sticking dart will help for a little while. But I am smart enough to know that it is only temporary and it is only a matter of time before I run out of darts. Now, the support that was once there looks at me and says “Be careful. She’s tricky.”
I wish I had more answers. I have darts that we keep throwing. I have my good days and my bad days. I try to bank the good ones so when the bad ones come, I can pull forward something wonderful. Like I always tell my friends and Noah when they are stressed or upset, “Tell me something wonderful.” I try to keep my wonderful bank full. It’s harder to make things bad when you have a stock pile of wonderful.
My wonderful for tonight is that I will be going to the Lake to be spending time with loved ones.
I am so sleepy that I am falling asleep at the keys so I will spell check tomorrow. But I wanted to write. Felt it was important tonight.